January 2007 Newsletter
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Health Tips
Christmas is now behind us, and it is time for New Year Resolutions.
Have you made any yet? Have you so far kept those you made?
Maybe consider starting the year with a detox regime!
A simple detox which is not too strict would be to:
'Winter Warmers'
So far we have been experiencing a warm winter but do keep your muscles warm if outside in a sudden cold spell. It can be easy to adjust to the current warm temperatures and then get ‘caught out’ in the cold! Cold muscles create tightness and stiffness and can put joints at greater risk of injury. This sounds obvious but each year I do get patients who ‘forget’ and get muscle or joint problems. This is especially important if you have a history of joint or spinal pain. Any discomfort arising from such a ‘minor event’ is usually indicative of a deeper underlying spinal or joint problem (the tip of the iceberg), which would benefit from professional assessment and treatment.
At this time of year we are all at risk of colds and flu infections. Although often there is little we can do to prevent exposure to such ‘bugs’ we can look after ourselves a little more.
‘Childrens Corner'
In this section I will pass on tips to do with child wellbeing, based on clinical experiences.
This week I have treated a number of children in the 20 to 30 month age group – either in, or approaching, the ‘Terrible Twos’ (TT). The TT age is very much about the child becoming aware of themselves as an individual, having their own independent thoughts and choices, being separate from Mum and Dad – and the ability to say NO!!
What becomes apparent is that the child needs reassurance, structure and security in their life at this stage. They are becoming aware that they can choose ‘Yes’ or ‘No’ – a major stage in growing up – but this can be a little scary at the same time. Often this can be compounded by the arrival of a new sibling in the family.
A child expressing the Terrible Twos syndrome often has tension in their body. Cranial osteopathic treatment can help release tensions in the nervous system and rest of their body which helps make them feel calmer, more settled and better behaved. As adults we can assist such children by giving a little extra reassurance and greater structure to their life, so that they can cope better with their new-found sense of choice in the world – realising they can also choose ‘Yes’ and not always ‘No’!
Coaching Tips
Life Coaching is about understanding yourself and understanding how you think and act. In particular it gives us an understanding of the inter-relationship between our conscious and unconscious mind. When we set a goal or task for ourselves, we determine what we want in life. However, unless we understand how our conscious and unconscious mind inter-relate these goals can be difficult to achieve. Often the way we construct our goals and our use of language patterns can create negativity and hinder our chances of success – without our being conscious of it. When we learn how to create good language patterns of communication between the conscious and unconscious mind, we find ourselves moving spontaneously towards our desired targets in life.
Coaching is for people who want to gain success… and for successful people who want greater success!
Choices- are you at cause or effect?
How often have we thought “You make me... [sick, hurt, resentful, in love or angry]”? We commonly blame others for the way we feel. It is always easier than looking to ourselves.
Let’s take this sentence and look at it more carefully: “You make me sick.”
If someone is several feet away, do they truly make your body become sick? The reality is that it is your body. It is your responses to other people which determine how you are feeling about them.
If someone does something or says something which I feel is negative towards me I have a choice:
The reality is that we do not know why someone is feeling negative. They may be feeling unwell with an illness. They may have had distressing news that morning. They may have just been in an accident. There are many causes for someone to feel stressed. They may express that stress and negativity towards you and others.
Then you can:
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